My first

Hi, I'm Alex. I'm 23 years old. I'm not too familiar with these blog things, especially ones talking about myself. It is going to be a bit odd for me, but I promised someone I would do it. You see, I met someone not too long ago and she totally changed my life forever. I have to express that our sexual desires are ones that some find taboo... you see we are into spanking. Yes, that's it. However we are REALLY into it. I signed onto spankolife just around January. I have been longing a spanking relationship my entire life. I am very dominant in relationships, but also very caring and loving. I dated women who for the most part were ok with the idea of spanking, but when it actually came to it they just couldn't do it or weren't getting anything out of it. So, I signed up as a sort of "there's nothing to lose, lots to gain" attitude. Not very short after I got a message from a girl, Alexia. She messaged me "hey, I live near you". Being the horny guy I was I gave it a go and replied. We started chatting and I started to realize that this girl was very fun, I almost instantly had a huge crush on her but didn't say it.
I had thought "hey this will be fun, a girl I can spank when I am horny"... but I slowly started to discover that the more I talked to Alexia the more I was into her. Wow! the most amazing personality ever... JUST LIKE MINE lol. It's actually true, we have too much in common for it to be a coincidence. After a few weeks of talking, I realized that Alexia was just too good of a thing to pass up. I told her how I felt and promised to go see her... and I did. A few months later I had my car all gassed up and my bag packed for a long 7 hour trip to go see the girl I now openly loved. I was feeling pretty good about six hours into it, then it dawned on me that I was about to see the girl that was changing my life. We decided to meet in a shopping center so we could then go eat together and meet her parents. I drove up with phone in hand talking to her, looking for a cute little red headed girl. I drove into the center and there she was, all dolled up and showered, too cute for words really. I got off the phone and parked my car, we had been planning this for a few weeks but I doubt either of us knew what we would do. I instantly gave her a hug... boy is she huggable. I then gave her a kiss and opened with a corny joke to break the ice. We had about 20 mins to kill so we sat in my car. We migrated to the back seat where we could hold each other. I couldn't believe she was finally in my arms. She was being cheeky the whole time, talking back to me and making fun of my "jew car"... that was the point where I took her over my knee for the first time and held her down firmly against my car seat. I could tell she was a bit nervous, but anxious at the same time so I started spanking. I had told her I was a hard spanker... and the whole time we had been talking I was trying to condition her so that she could take my spankings well without squirming or giving up. I gave her a few, she didn't seem to mind, probably because she was wearing jeans. I then grabbed onto the back belt loop of her jeans and pulled them tight across her bottom. I gave her some harder ones, and I think she saw that I had it in me to punish her right.
I stayed in a hotel, she didn't sleep with me there but we hung out for a long time during the day and most of the night until either she drove home or I took her home. In the hotel we had some very intimate spanking play. I put her across my knee with her panties down for the first time and got very excited. Alexia has the best bottom I've ever seen. Cute, plump, and VERY spankable. So, I didn't hesitate. She started moving around and squirming... she had not done too much conditioning on her end and it showed. i quickly started reprimanding her to keep still or she would get it worse. The way she calls me daddy just makes my dick hard automatically, such care and love in her voice, I honestly feel like her guardian. I put her in the corner, and she started acting bratty... that is just what she was used to, but I wouldn't have any of that. I made sure she put her nose right in the corner and I spanked her as I reprimanded her. I always make Alexia reflect out loud while she is in the corner, as I truly want her to get a lesson out of all the spankings I give her. She decided to be bratty again, so I pulled on her ear... she did the most outrageous thing and pinched my arm. She had a laugh, but I was not laughing. Though I like to put her in her place, I am all about respect. I always respect her as she is precious to me, and when she pinched me I felt very disrespected and abused. She got on the bed and was playing with a pillow. I took it away angry at her trying to get her to listen to me, but it was pointless... she was having quite the laugh. She asked for the pillow and I threw it in her face, she saw I was very angry with her. I didn't want to talk to her until she apologized... she felt so bad she started to cry. She wouldn't get out of the bathroom from the shame it brought her. At that moment I saw that this girl REALLY cared about me and what I thought of her, though I was feeling like a douche bag for making her cry I also felt nice knowing that she was ashamed for pinching me. She then got out of the bathroom and apologized. I then told her she would be disciplined for it. Of course this was all in play, but the spanking was real. I know she enjoyed it, and I did also.
Now it is a few weeks later. I promised her I would help her with her school work.. .you see she has a very big procrastination problem. I understand having been in college myself, but Alexia is just so full of ambition, that it bothers me that she doesn't try harder. She trusted me to keep her in line with her classes and homework, and I honestly tried as hard as I could. Every day she goes out with her friends and forgets to do her homework, sometimes she skips class just for the heck of it... and I learned that she was actually failing one class. So of course we had a few spanking sessions about it and I thought that was enough. Last night though she called me on skype very worried. She had way too much work backed up from not planning anything out and not writing down her assignments. She asked me for help, and because I would help Alexia no matter what, I agreed to help her... but under a condition. She suddenly got an embarrassed look on her face, I could tell she felt very small at the time. I told her that the day after she needed to set aside an hour so that we could work on her problem. "an hour?" she asked, and I nodded my head and said yes. She was very nervous about what would happen to her... she kept asking "how many do I get? just a ball park figure". I explained that with a spanking it is not about how many you get, but the feeling you feel when you get it.. when she learns is when I stop.
So today I get a call from Alexia, she tells me she is alone and ready for her discipline. I make her pull down her panties and lay on the bed. the entire time scolding her while she tries her hardest to give herself the best self spanking she can, so I would be contempt with it. I reminded her of all the people she was letting down by procrastinating, and she really felt bad. She got one heck of a spanking from me, but most of all I got in her head... I know I did because right after I felt she was closer to me in how she talked and acted. I let her compose herself and told her to call me back. She did, and we talked a bit about how we are going to keep things like that from happening again. I expect her to report to me with her homework and tests. I asked if she had an agenda to write it all down in, she couldn't find it... I suppose I will make her find it or get a new one. I am so in love with Alexia, not just from the spanking, but from the way she expresses herself. She is my soul mate, I can feel it.. I really want my life to be with her and her alone and I will do what I can to make it that way. She needed my help, and I would go above and beyond what I can to do that. she is going to come see me soon, a little over a month... and she is staying her a while. I honestly can't wait.
We made a deal that we would both post about how we feel after our spanking sessions. She will be posting Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays (I will make sure of that) and I will be posting Tuesdays and Thursdays at the least. We are doing this to help bond with each other while being away from each other, and as a way to connect while we talk about what we like about spanking.